Why Online Friends Are Often More Real Than In-Person Connections
Online Friends Are Real Friends
I met my closest friends on Reddit and Instagram, proving that digital bonds can be as deep as physical ones. While I value casual acquaintances, my online relationships offer unique vulnerability and genuine connection without the pressure of convenience. These friends, scattered across countries like Germany and Russia, support me through tough times and share personal goals, often knowing me better than those I meet in person.
Maybe that's why my online friendships can often be realer than my IRL ones, as I find it easier to be vulnerable when I'm behind a screen.
- evaneykelen
My son made online friends when he was 14, playing games together with them on Steam. When he is playing a game with them, I often hear him roar with laughter, but they can also be quite serious and talk about life and school. Last month, we took him to Wrocław to meet them, and it was marvelous. My wife and I got to know the parents of these boys (16-17 yo now), had dinner together, and we separated as friends. My son had a blast that week finally meeting them in person.
- MomsAVoxell
Had plenty of online friends come and go. What I found is that it usually took online relationships longer to get to know each other in some ways, and quicker in other ways.
It was no fun realizing after a few IRL visits that we really just didn't like each other unless careful email communications was our primary means of interaction.
With some folks the time it takes to write an email is all the filter is needed. Sometimes, though, it only takes 5 minutes IRL to realize that you only like the persons email - not the person, themselves.
- en3r0
Here's the problem with online relationships, you can pick them up and drop them whenever you like. You can do that in real life to a degree, but sometimes you are forced to confront friends in real life when you don't want to. A real friend requires surviving a degree of confrontation.